Let me take a try at discussing the news story that nobody wanted to talk about this Christmas. It was a nativity story, but one so ghastly and disturbing that many newspapers never ran a headline on it. It was splashed for twenty four hours on Drudge and the cable news outlets because, well, they had to. They are, after all, occasional captives of the momentary and the sensational. It's a price they pay for the tabloid tastes of the Internet. But even
they let this one fade in a hurry.
The story I'm referring to, of course, is this horrible murder-fetal kidnapping in Missouri. In mercy to us all, I'll only lightly cover the details. Bobbie Jo Stinnett, a 23 year old expectant mother and wife in a small town in Missouri was stalked on the Internet by Lisa Montgomery, a surely deranged middle aged mother of two who had a bizarre drive to replace a child she had recently lost through a miscarriage. Montgomery strangled the young mother on the floor in front of her television and then cut the woman's 8 month term baby out of her womb, taking the child back to Kansas and showing it off to people in town and yes, even in her church, as her own.
Thankfully, the FBI broke the case quickly and the child, now named Victoria Jo, is recovering well. The rest of the people in the two families may never recover from this dark experience. But, as repulsive as the narrative is , there are some lessons here that may give some value to this episode of madness. I have been pondering several:
1. Lisa Montgomery will almost certainly be found to be insane, at least to a degree. There is a small measure of comfort in this. I would find it hard to soldier on in this life if we found relatively "normal" people committing these kinds of acts. But Montgomery was not
that crazy. She was deliberate to some degree, and as such, she decided to become evil. So she should be both medicated
and incarcerated, for life.
What's the lesson of value here? Simply that a frumpy, wicked "housewive next door" like Lisa Montgomery gives the lie to the humanistic idea that human beings are essentially good. No, people are inherently selfish, and they can walk down some very dark alleys if that selfishness is not confronted.
2. We were deeply horrified by this story. So much so that we don't want to talk about it or even think about it. This is good. It means we're still in touch with some of the protective reflexes that God built into us about innocence, vulnerability, and motherhood.
I'm sure I'm not the only one that sensed a tragic Christmas parallel in this story. Zeb and Bobbie Jo Stinnett stood in my mind as a modern Joseph and Mary. Newly married, flushed with happiness and hope, and suddenly swept in upon by a selfish evil that targeted their unborn child. Remember King Herod in the Bible story, insane with rage, ordering the murder of all the children in Bethlehem in order to kill the Christ? Jesus was the miracle survivor of that onslaught. Little Victoria Jo is a similar "miracle child" today. I wonder what special plan may unfold for her life? Maybe the first step will be that her dangerous beginning reminded us all that we still have a chord of humanity within us. We were sure all rooting for her that day.
3. At the time that her life was threatened, Victoria Jo was the same age as Conner Peterson was when his life was ended. I find that confirming. Confirming that "murder in the second degree" in Conner's death was a good call. Confirming that "murder in the first degree" would have been a better one. If you disagree, imagine trying to win that argument with Victoria Jo's Dad.
4. The only difference between the violation of Victoria Jo's safety in the womb that bloody afternoon and the late-term and partial birth abortions performed many times each year in America is one simple thing: consent. That's right. If Bobbie Jo Stinnett had decided last Thursday afternoon that having her baby was just too much for her, she might easily have fallen within the "health of the mother" clause and had Victoria Jo aborted in St Louis, without husband Zeb even knowing. If you're a member of that segment of America that insists that late term abortion continue as a woman's right, you
have to face that fact. What you were too horriied to talk about in this "fetal kidnapping" from Missouri is exactly what happens in every late term abortion. A child is torn from her mother's womb due to the deceived decision of another. Only in those cases, it's not some psychotic housewife from Kansas who's taking a life. It's a calm and collected doctor
and a mother. Tell you what. You want something to feel
really horrified about? Try
that.
Joe Pursch
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